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There is something about that "certain someone". The feeling in your stomach, the warmness in your chest and the heat to your face. You can drop all you're doing for them. You can listen and never talk, or talk all night while they listen. Be yourself, and feel as though the interactions you have are never forced, never rushed and always cherished. The person whom you find balance with, saying its okay to say goodnight, or talk to you later, knowing they'll be there when you get back. Understanding one another where "family is first" and that you do have a life outside of other people, even those who are the closest with you. Mutual respect for needs and wants, goals and dreams. Wanting to be able to achieve those with someone and share it with them as the share it with you. The two consciousnesses you've both been given hat we call "Life" almost seeming to blend into one singular experience just told from two points of view. Being able to take those experiences you share, living in the moment as they happen, to look back one day on the good and bad to learn. To both have the goal to better one another, even if there is a day you never meet again. Realizing that its never for nothing, even if it was all bad, there is something to be learned, and if you can learn, then its a victory. So that the next time you take a swing at not only love but anything in life, you have a better plan ,a better idea of how to fail and then get back up when needed. Because it really isnt how about how hard you fall, its how you get back up. And even if not right away, you can. sometimes we have bad days and those bad days just happen to be a month long. Reaching out to that one other, a friend, family member or lover, or all three, to learn and help you through these times of darkness. For anyone who has ever achieved greatness had never done it alone. To be able to share these times with that "certain someone" makes it all the more special. For you to see them grow as they watch you. To look back and one day really see the progress you've made despite obstacles. And only wanting to achieve more, to see more and FEEL more. You know their yours and you them when those feelings are never old, never worn out and could relive them as if for the first time over and over, always looking forward to what tomorrow could bring even if yesterday was hell. Being able to brush off yesterday, and only learn from it isnt easy.Us as humans tending to want to figure it out on our own as if we have something to prove to ourselves or our other half. When thats what our other halves are for. To complete us. Sadly one day you may find that someone who was your other half, was maybe only a quarter. Off to find someone else or for someone to find you. Either way it is always essential to keep going, to feel like the best times you ever had could only get better. Like when you find a new song and its your favorite. You know damn well someday you'll find something better, and people can be the same, until you find that one that never gets old, and could be replayed over and over, only for it to give you the chills each time. To evoke that emotion deep down giving you that same feeling but is some how different, again as if for the first time every time. Hope and faith are words that get tossed around a lot, and things people tell you that are cliche. Well theyre cliche because you hear them a lot and why do you hear them a lot? Because theyre true. Remembering that is IS ok to fail but NOT ok to quit. That even though those lows really do hit below the belt, they only make you stronger over time. And hell how many times have you hear that one. It comes with believing. Winning, happiness s and success are ALL conscious decisions. How far will you push for those things. We often think that happiness is something that doesnt need to be worked for. But you need to start somewhere. To look within yourself and figure out how YOU Tick, before you figure out how the world ticks. To accept the truths of who you are even though you might not like it. To identify what you want to change if you can to better yourself. Though it might be a battle. To remember that a long time of suffering will eventually mean an even longer time of peace. To convince yourself that its never the end and that what you want IS achievable. To swallow your pride and to ask for help, to feel like you need another to lean on as they lean on you. We often feel like we are a bother to others, but what about your "certain someone". They might say "sorry" or they dont want to be a bother, but you never mind. You want to be there! So remember that each time you yourself ask for help, or need a moment. Having someone to trust to be there and to mean it. To not only listen but to attempt to understand and dissect what it is you need help with and for you to again listen and accept that even thought you dont like what you hears, its true. The first step to solving our problems is accepting we have them. No matter how big or small. To have the confidence within yourself combined with whomever you decide to embark on this life on that you are unstoppable. We might find many people throughout our lives who make us feel this way, but each time it happens, never take it for granted and let them fill your heart as much as they can as you do them. For though you might not meet again one day, there will be one where you never say goodbye. and the path to get there is faith. Faith that it can and WILL happen. That you cant force it, and there are things out of your control and reach that will only come to you through perseverance and mental fortitude. Never be afraid to take a leap, because you might just land on your feet. Where if you fail but learn from it, you really never have anything to lose. Whether you find that someone or they find you, they'll help you through all the challenges listed above. The one for you will never question your reality and what it means to you, as you wont them. And when theyre for you, there will not be a question or moment of doubt in your mind. You wont question, motives or intentions, only how the future is with them in your life. How the feeling in your stomach, the warmness in your chest and the heat to your face will never cease to give you "that feeling" which cannot be described and only felt.